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Atheism, beliefs, deep thoughts, Freedom, God, Life, lifes-journey, Truth
For many years, I thought Truth was the way of worship I grew up in. I worshipped God within the Truth, and I did not see that it was possible to worship and please God in any other way. I was in and out of Truth as I was willing and unwilling for the parameters thereof.
When I was in my forties, I saw Truth as Jesus – He said, “I am the truth, the light and the way.” I felt freedom and joy in celebrating Him instead of the narrowness of the sect of my youth. I dove into the Bible and found, amongst the love and grace, so many things that I know I had questioned in my heart for as long as I could remember. Confusing things. Untrue things. Evil things. But… God’s mind was higher than my mind, God’s ways were not my ways. He works in mysterious ways, his mercies to bestow. I was not willing to explore anything but the perfection, omniscience and omnipotence of God.
Then, one afternoon, I was having a deep conversation about my beliefs, and where I was, spiritually, in my life. The person I was speaking to was also talking about his thoughts and beliefs about God. It was a profound and edifying conversation, and I felt comfortable speaking about anything with him. During this conversation, I had an epiphany that changed everything for me. It was my path to the realization of what truth means. Truth is factual.
I remember talking about who ‘my God’ was. I had decided that MY God wasn’t the Old Testament God. That OT God was angry, vengeful, a respecter of persons. He was genocidal and acceptant of slavery and warmongering. MY God was also not the God of my childhood: a strict parent, unbending, exacting. Expecting total obedience and obeisance and love from the depth of my heart. Failing that, He would abandon me to eternal hell fire and torment. That was no longer my belief. That was no longer my God. MY God was also not the God who mostly left me to my own devices.
No. MY God was a god who loved me unconditionally. Who was my best friend. Who would listen and support me every minute of every day, and gently convict me of right and wrong rather than dole out punishment and reward. I wanted MY God to be available for me to pray to and speak with at any time, and who would reply and answer my prayers, even if the answer was sometimes NO.
My friend said that his God was LOVE; everything love, every kind of love. If he felt love, he was feeling God.
It dawned on me, that we had each created our own God! I had decided who God was, what he was like, and then was ready to worship this creation of my own idea of perfection. What if, instead of God creating mankind, mankind created God?
But…The Bible says that God is unchanging. That he is all things to all people. Whatever Christian/Jewish God you believe in, though, can be justified in the Bible. You just find the verses that best describe God as what you want Him to be. However, there is no way that God can be all of these diametrically opposing things. So why is the God of the Bible not consistent? Because the Bible contains many different accounts, and each author is writing about their own idea of God.
If humans created God, what purpose does He serve? Originally, supernatural beings were thought to be responsible for the rain, the thunder, the stars, etc., because we, as humans, did not know how or why else they would exist. When science discovered answers to these questions, the god of thunder, the god of rain, etc., were not needed any more. There are so many things that were attributed to God or gods that we now know had natural, scientific causes. Some you will see in the Bible. We know that the rainbow is reflected/refracted light, and don’t need the myth of Noah’s ark to explain it, for example.
There are still many things about the natural and physiological and spiritual worlds that we don’t know; but why do we have to attribute these things to a God? So far in our exploration of how things work, it hasn’t been God that is causing things.
But where did things come from? God must have created everything, right? But why must he have? Nothing comes from nothing, right? So, Something or Someone must have created things. However, when you follow this to its logical next step, who created the creator? I always was told that no one created God – he was always there, eternal. But if we can say HE was always there and didn’t need a creator, why can we not say the universe was always there and didn’t need a creator? They say (and can prove) the ‘big bang’ set things in motion; but what caused the big bang? What caused whatever caused the big bang? We don’t know. We may never know. But why does that mean we need to create an answer if we don’t have one?
If we don’t need God to explain the universe and the creation of life, why do we still go on with the myth? There are many reasons: As children, all our needs were taken care of, and we didn’t have to face the big world by ourselves. Enter the ‘heavenly father’. Enter the Biblical guidebook. We don’t have to make our own decisions. We don’t have to develop our own moral compass – we are told what is right and what is wrong, and what the punishment will be if we don’t do as we are told. We are worried about life’s end – what happens when we die? Look in the book – it says that this is not the only life, just the beginning. But does it say that, really? The Old Testament doesn’t talk of heaven. The Jews don’t believe in heaven. In the New Testament, Jesus talks of ‘many mansions’ and ‘his father’s house’ and preparing a place – but theists can’t even agree what the Bible is saying about our afterlife. Some believe in purgatory, a system of levels of reward. Some believe upon death, the soul goes directly to heaven. There is also something about souls resting under the altar, waiting for judgement before they go to heaven. And what, exactly, is heaven? Does Jesus go into details? Most of what Christians commonly suppose heaven will be like is another myth.
What happens when we die? We don’t know for sure. No one has firsthand knowledge. Until we know, why make things up?
Belief in God is comforting. God loves us even when others don’t. Difficult times in life can be explained by thinking that God has a plan that we just don’t understand. Terrible events and terrible people will be punished and adjusted and not allowed to prevail. God can provide understanding when our thoughts and motives and ideas can’t be explained or believed by other people. And those things are good, right?
Maybe not. Do we use the idea of God as an excuse not to grow, not to learn to fight our own battles, not to forge loving connections with others, not to accept our own selves as worthwhile and contributing members of our society? Do we use God to justify our own hate and superiority over people who believe, act, look, speak differently than we do?
I realized that justifying the existence of God (Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist, Egyptian, Greek, Roman… etc.) is like trying to believe in Santa Claus. It would be nice if it were true, for the most part, but all the evidence points in the other direction. And really, a lot of the details are the same. Santa sees you all the time (great idea to keep children from acting up), so does God (maybe to keep people under control?). Santa is invisible and can answer requests from people around the world (but not in non-Christian countries or poverty-stricken areas. And not requests for important things like the end of war, the cure of sickness, the return of a deceased loved one, or even food for the starving.) God answers prayers, but only for things that have a reasonable chance of happening anyway. He can heal the sick who are already being cared for in hospitals and may recover… but have you ever witnessed him regrowing a limb for an amputee, for example? He may answer your prayer for a parking spot near the drug store but then not hear the prayer of parents asking him to spare their children from starvation or disease. And yet, most adults will accept, without a lot of thought, that the Santa Claus character is not real. Can you prove he doesn’t exist? Now use those same objections with the God character.
But what if I am wrong? Does it hurt to worship God, just in case He’s real? Well, which God should I worship, just in case? Jesus? But if the Jews are right, that would fail. If the Muslims are right, that would fail. Maybe I should worship Allah. But if the Christians are right, that would fail. If the Buddhists were right, that would fail. Zeus or Thor? Appollo or Diana? In fact, there are thousands of gods that people believe with all their hearts to be real. And that’s not even counting the different denominations within the worship of each God. Should I worship Jesus as a Catholic? That is the oldest recorded way of Christian worship. Or as a protestant? Baptist, Methodist, United, Church of England? Or something more off the beaten path – should I be a Mormon? A Pentecostal? A Unitarian? Would worshipping any one of these things cover the ‘just in case’ scenario – or just the one that you believe in? Did you know that almost all of the people in the world who believe in a god believe in the god and the denomination that they were taught to believe by their parents? And that, in North America, is the Christian God.
But if you were born in China, you’d be more likely to believe in Buddha. If you were born and raised in India, maybe you’d be worshipping Ganesh. So, if the Christian God is not willing that anyone should perish, but all have eternal life, why would he make it more difficult for 3\4 of the world to even know he existed, let alone to cast aside their inborn belief in their own gods to worship him?
And the small sect I grew up in – is it the One and Only Way to heaven? What hubris to think that I would be born into the only correct way to worship the only correct God so that I could be worthy to be made worthy to get into heaven!
So, as much as believing in God was comfortable to me, and self-confirming because part of the belief is not to trust my own thoughts and reasonings, the facts speak for themselves. What is true, what is real, what makes sense is that the concept of God is a story mankind has told itself. Much like Santa Claus, once I’ve seen the myth for what it is, I cannot unsee it. I’d love to believe in fairies and magic and leprechauns, and I can pretend for a while – I can believe for the purposes of a story, be convinced for a fun hour or two, but in the end, I know it is pretend.
I don’t hate God. I’m not mad at God. I’m not bitter about God. But the truth is, God does not exist.